My Experiences

Have you ever been in a situation where someone assumed something about you instead of just asking? And while they carried on believing their version of the truth, you were left overthinking, confused, and hurt? I’ve been there—more times than I can count. And honestly, I’m exhausted. It’s frustrating to deal with people who find it easier to assume than to communicate. Maybe, for them, staying silent seems like the better choice—it avoids confrontation, keeps their life free from unnecessary chaos. But what about the other person? The one who just wants clarity, who doesn’t want misunderstandings to fester, who believes that a simple conversation could prevent an unnecessary mess? What baffles me even more is when people not only assume but also spread their assumptions like facts. Instead of talking to the person involved, they talk about them—to friends, colleagues, or even strangers—shaping a false narrative. And that’s where the real damage begins. Because now, it'...

Have you ever felt like you were living your life on autopilot, constantly trying to meet expectations that weren’t even yours? Like you had to be nice, agreeable, and responsible all the time because that’s just who you’re supposed to be? If this sounds familiar, you might be experiencing what many call the Good Girl Syndrome—a pattern where you feel the need to be perfect, self-sacrificing, and always “good” in the eyes of others. But here’s the catch: this isn’t just a girl thing. Plenty of guys deal with it too—always trying to be the “ideal son,” the “dependable one,” or the “strong one” who never complains. Society has created this mold for us, and we’ve been trying to fit into it for so long that we barely realize when it’s crushing us. We grow up learning that being a “good person” means putting others first, never saying no, and always meeting expectations—whether it’s about career choices, relationships, behavior, or even emotions. It starts young. “Be a good girl...